A Day at the Lake

A Day to Celebrate

Today Kate went to U of M for an echo and ekg on her heart. Both showed that her heart is perfect! Thank you, God!

Yesterday marked two weeks since Kate's birth. We're still not quite adjusted, but we're getting closer. Kate continues to have her days and nights mixed up. This is helpful during the day for caring for Grant and getting things done, but it makes for a very tired mommy. Yesterday we made the switch from nursing to bottles. After two weeks of struggling with nursing we prayerfully decided that formula is going to be the best option for our family.

Grant continues to be very attentive to his little sister. If she starts to cry while we are playing he'll point to her and say, "mama, pick up kate." Jim is still working from home most days and that helps a lot.

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Life as a family of 4

Wow. Life with two kids is well...busy. Grant is adjusting really well. He doesn't seem to be jealous at all, except when I'm nursing and then he throws balls at Kate's head. We're working on it. :) The transition is much easier having Jim home from work and Grandma and Grandpa Koss just around the corner.

I thought about making a new blog now that our family is expanding, but, I don't think I'm going to. It sounds like too much work for one thing (think sleep deprived). Additionally, I don't think I ever would have started a blog if it hadn't been for Grant's heart surgery. So, Kate, (and any future siblings) please, don't think we don't love you as much as we do Grant. Of course we do. But, Grant is what started this whole thing, so we'll let the blog continue to be named after him. Thanks for understanding, sweetie.

Supernatural Childbirth

We've been home for 48 hours now and everyone is doing great. I wanted to make sure to record the awesome story of my labor and delivery so that I don't ever forget it. It was truly supernatural. God was in it every moment and I give Him all the credit and thanks.

I had been having pretty regular contractions (every 6-30 minutes) since Sunday night (Kate was born on Wednesday morning), but they were not getting stronger or closer together. Around 3:00am on Wednesday I finally noticed a shift in their intensity. Around 3:30am I called the Alternative Birth Center, where I had planned on giving birth. (The birth center provides a place to labor and give birth that has the comforts of home. The rooms have queen sized beds, large hot tubs, rockers, kitchenettes etc. There is no medical equipment hanging around and no epidurals are offered. However, it is attached to Providence Hospital, so if anything were to "go wrong" then we would be only a stone's throw away.) I was very excited to give birth here because I thought it would provide a relaxed atmosphere and allow for a more peaceful birth.

However, when we called the birth center on Wednesday morning they told us they were full and we'd have to head over to regular labor and delivery at the hospital. I didn't even think this was a possibility, so Jim helped me talk through it and we prayed that God's perfect will would be done and that He'd help us adjust to whatever that may be. Within minutes my midwife called me back and told me a room had just opened up. We finished packing our bags, called Grandma Koss to come over and headed out the door.

When we arrived at the hospital I was only dilated to 3. This was actually a good thing (even though I felt kind of discouraged by the slow progress) because I needed to get an antibiotic at least 4 hours before the baby arrived. (I tested positive for GBS. Not a big deal, but an antibiotic was necessary to prevent the baby from getting an infection passed on from me at birth.)

I finished getting the antibiotic around 5:45 am and Jim and I decided to walk the halls. My contractions were about 7 minutes apart. After about an hour of walking I was pretty tired, so we headed back to the room so I could practice the relaxation techniques I learned in my hypnobirthing class. For the next hour or so I sat on the birthing ball while Jim and my doula rubbed my back and prayed for me. At this point my contractions were about 5 minutes apart. They were painful, but not terrible. I felt calm and peaceful. Anytime I started to feel fear the contractions would get more painful, but as Jim prayed and I relaxed they would subside considerably.

The intensity of the contractions picked up at around 9:00am, so I decided to get in the hot tub. The hot tub totally relaxed my body and the pain subsided again. While I was in the tub I went through transition and it was truly not that bad! After being in the tub for 35 minutes I felt like it was time to push. I don't think that the nurse or midwife believed it was really time because I looked so calm and felt so peaceful.

By the time I got out of the tub and made my way to the bed I knew it was time. Two pushes and she was out! This was 4 hours and 5 minutes after the antibiotic was given. Perfect timing. At our request the nurse took her down to the nursery to have her oxygen level checked etc. Within 15 minutes she was returned to us and pronounced healthy. I never thought I'd be able to say it, but this childbirth was an amazing experience!

Welcome Kate!

Kate Alexandra Niedzinski

9:53 a.m.; perfectly healthy; 7 lbs, 12 oz; 21 inches long; beauuuuuutiful. Shannon did an amazing job and we are so incredibly thankful to God for our wonderful, healthy Kate. Thank you for your prayers!

Heading to the hospital...

Shannon is certainly in labor and we're leaving right now for the hospital. Thanks for praying!

39 weeks

I've been having contractions since Sunday night, anywhere from 6-30 minutes apart. It's been one false alarm after another. I'll be sure I'm in labor, wake Jim up, call my parents... and then the contractions slow down. My body is feeling pretty taxed at this point. Last night I was complaining and Jim gently reminded me that 39 weeks is an answer to prayer. It really is. I'm so thankful to be full term and I'm trying to enjoy these last few days.

I took Grant to the doctor yesterday because I thought his wheeze was pretty bad (and he was really grumpy). She assured me that what we are hearing is not fluid in the lungs, but his chest vibrating from post-nasal drip.

The person who I'm praying for to get well now is my doula! For those of you who don't know, a doula is a birth coach. She is there in addition to Jim, the midwife and the nurse. Unlike the midwife and nurse who will be in and out of the room, my doula never leaves my side. She's kind of like my personal cheerleader. (Doula is the Greek word for servant.) She is there to provide massage, coaching for Jim, to bring me water, to communicate with our families and just to provide an extra set of hands. She was there for me with Grant's birth and I cannot imagine having another child without her! She provided great coaching and encouragement as well as practical help.But, unfortunately, she seems to have caught Grant's bug. I told her I'll try to hold this baby in another couple of days so she can get well.

Still cookin'

Well, it looks like my midwife's prediction of this weekend was not so accurate. It is Sunday afternoon and no signs of labor. This is just like what happened with Grant. They put me on bedrest so he wouldn't come early and then he ended up being late! In his case it was a good thing because he was bigger and stronger for his surgery. If it were up to me I'd have this baby today! But, I continue to trust in God's perfect timing and try to enjoy this last week or two with Grant as king of the castle.

His cold finally seems to be gone, but he still has a pretty serious cough. This is causing some wheezing and labored breathing and unfortunately for all of us, keeps him up at night. If he's not significantly better in the next day or two I'll have to take him back to the doctor. I guess it is better to be on the safe side and make sure his lungs are still clear.

And, for those friends and family around the country, here is the picture you requested...

Funny Words

Grant is adding new words to his vocabulary everyday. The other day he he said "I love you" to Jim for the first time as he threw his arms around daddy's neck. Other words are not quite as obvious, but we've figured them out by context. My personal favorite is the way that Grant says his own name. If you ask him his name he'll slap his chest and say, "Geek." The other funny one is when he wants to have a pillow fight with dad he asks him for a "pee-pee fight."

Still sick

Unfortunately, Grant does not seem to be getting better yet. His cough sounds terrible, but we're hopeful that it is still not in his lungs. He seems to have the most trouble in the night because he can't breathe well when laying down. I'm super thankful that Jim is willing to take shifts in the night so that we can switch off sleeping. I guess we may as well get used to getting up with someone in the night. :)

I saw my midwife this week and my body seems to be moving closer to being ready. She predicted this weekend for the baby's arrival! Please pray that Jim and I continue to stay healthy.

Lung check

We took Grant in to Pediatric After Hours clinic this afternoon because he appeared to be wheezing when he climbed the stairs. Thankfully, they said his cough is not in his lungs. He did not mind the visit because they both took his temperature in his ears and checked his ears for infection. The nurse thought we were kidding when we told her that Grant loved things in his ears. He really does. Often we find him waking up from his nap with one pacifier in each ear. :) Interesting fetish.

Coughing Grant

About 36 hours after the doctors said Grant's lungs sounded great he came down with a cough. Last night he was up coughing and crying for most of the night. He is miserable. I know that having a sick kid is exhausting for any parent, but I'm hoping that as time goes on it will be easier for me than it is currently. Instead of just hearing a cough in the night I go on "high-alert," trying to listen to see if it sounds like it is in his lungs. I get super worried and feel guilty for taking him to story time, where I'm sure he caught it. I wonder if we should take him to the hospital or if I should just wait it out.

When he had the stomach flu a couple of months ago I got a taste of what it is like to have a "normal" sick kid. The stomach flu isn't life threatening for him, so it didn't create the worry in me that a cough does. I hope and pray that one day a cough will be in the same category for Grant as the flu. As for right now, please pray for Grant to be healed, for the cough to stay out of his lungs and for everyone around here to get some sleep.

EKG

Things went great today at U of M. They decided not to do a sedated echo or chest x-rays at this point. Grant will get chest x-rays in the early fall and if all continues to go well they will wait to do an echo for another year. They are hoping by then he'll be old enough to sit still and not need the sedation.

They did check his oxygen saturation levels (99%, which is great) and did an EKG. They EKG looked excellent. Grant had to sit very still for his EKG for a significant length of time. Grandma sang and danced for him while I sat with him on the exam table and rubbed his hand. I really didn't know he was capable of sitting still for that long. I was so proud of him.

He didn't really want to sit still while the two doctors examined him. By that time we'd been in a small space for too long. At one point he looked at the cardiologist and said "all done. bye-bye. home." Then he proceeded to walk to the door, opened it and left. I finished the rest of the visit with the doctor while Grant pushed his stroller around the halls of the cardiac wing.

It was so nice to have such a brief visit to the hospital. Grant's cardiologist, Dr.Cotts, said that at this point the statistical chance that something could go wrong with his heart is small. That is why he wants to wait to do the echo when Grant can be awake. As far as the lungs go, we have a few more months until we'll know more.

Dr.Cotts wants to do an echo on baby girl a couple of weeks after she is born just to be sure her heart looks good. I hit 37 weeks this week and am ready to meet her!

Prayer Requests for Thursday

Thursday we'll be at U of M for a series of routine tests for Grant. He's doing great, so we expect a good report, but we'd appreciate being covered in prayer. Here are some specific things to pray for:

1. That Grant's heart would continue to look perfect and that the veins would not be narrowed.
2. That Grant's lungs would be miraculously healed and the x-rays would show it. (This would truly be a miracle and would greatly impact how careful we have to be of germs, especially next winter.)
3. That Grant would react well to the sedation and would wake up easily with no side effects.
4. That our day at U of M would not trigger any painful memories or induce any anxiety in me.

Thank you! It is always so comforting to know people are praying for us.

36 weeks

I went to see my midwife this morning and all is well. I am officially off bedrest! She said she's totally comfortable with the amount of amniotic fluid that I have because I'm so far along. It has been a delight to chase Grant around the last couple of days. He's been super happy and snuggly with me. I'm dilated to one, so the process has begun, but it still looks like I'll have some time to enjoy Grant and get things ready for our baby girl. I'm continuing to get a lot of contractions now that I'm more active, but they don't bring any anxiety because I know it is safe for her to come out now.

Speech Evaluation

Today Grant had a speech evaluation through Beaumont Hospital. His pediatrician recommended speech therapy back in April when he was not really talking. The first appointment we could get for an evaluation was today. It was a good thing that we didn't get in sooner, because Grant's talking has really picked up in the last month. He's just starting to put two words together and names every object he sees. It was music to my ears to hear that he scored above average in both comprehension and expression. This means that we have no therapists to see for the rest of the summer.

Grant's next big appointment is next Thursday in Ann Arbor. They'll do a full workup on his heart and lungs. It will take much of the day and he'll have to be sedated. I'll post with the results when we get them.

A day at the Park

We recently took Grant to the park with our friends, the Korals. They have a son a little younger than Grant. The dads had fun chasing the boys around while the moms laid on a blanket in the sun. What a fun day!

Storytime

One of my favorite parts of the day with Grant is reading books in his room when he wakes up in the morning. He is a great sleeper, usually sleeping from 7:15pm-7:30am. After he gets dressed I sit in the rocker and he brings me books to read to him. There is a farm book that Grandma Niedzinski gave him that he loves to look at because he likes me to count the eggs on the pages. Yesterday he did the counting for the first time. He says, "one, two, free, four," and then he goes back to "free" again. :) Now he wants us to count everything.

He loves the interactive books best, like the ones with flaps and doors that open with pictures behind them. Unfortunately, he sometimes rips the flaps off. Whenever he does I tell him that daddy will fix it when he gets home from work. (Anytime anything breaks, rips or gets stuck under the couch Grant looks at me as says, "dada?" I tell him that yes, daddy will fix it when he gets home.) The other day he was really missing daddy (he has become VERY attached to Jim lately) so he started going through his books, ripping them and asking for dada. I soon caught on that he thought if he kept ripping them daddy would come home and fix them immediately. He was not a happy camper when he learned that not only was daddy not coming home to fix the books, but he had earned himself a "time out".